It's okay. You didn't know. Take your time considering all of your choices. I suggested the counselor so you can have some privacy while working on all of this with someone who doesn't have an agenda. There is a lot at stake.
Also, be careful of her trying to become pregnant to solidify this union and browbeat you into what she wants. (I may be a little obsessed with sex/birth control right now, for those of you who read the Everything Else forum right now but it's a possibility where she's not a US citizen). But really, it sounds like your confused and scared and she may be trying to legally bind you into certain things.
Trust your gut. Good luck. Let us know how this goes.
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