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Old 04-14-2009, 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Daylily View Post
Sometimes I don't even think my husband remembers how much I earn.
I guarantee you my wife could not tell you how much I earn. It is simply a non-issue, something she sees no reason to know or remember.

[quote[I really have never understood the idea of the joint account, 'his' account, 'her' account. I realize some people use this so that each partner can have some of their own 'fun' money to blow on whatever they want. However, if it was something frivolous I'd still be mad about it whether it was part of 'our' money or just part of 'his' money.[/quote]

Same here. There just is no such thing as "her" money or "my" money. Anything either one of us spends affects the ultimate bottom line, no matter what account that money gets pulled from. That's why we see no reason to separate it. Just keep it all together and keep things simple.
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