As this model was periodically repeated a trend emerged. Obviously a negative trend indicated a worsening relationship. Can you imagine the body language that would be exhibited?
The 1st category identified was 'validating,' calm, intimate, back each other up, and share a companionable relationship.
A second group was deemed 'avoiders,' who do their best to sidestep confrontation and conflict. They only respond positively to their partner.
The 'volatile' couple are passionate, have heated arguments, mix stable and unstable and tend to be unhappy more than not.
The 'hostile' category has one partner who will not talk about an issue, the other agrees and there is no communication. The 'hostile-detached' couple has one wanting to argue, the other is not interested in discussing the issue.
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