[lisajane]

Trust is essental, meaning that if something bad happens in the relationship. That we trust each other enough to be fair.

That's what I mean. If I don't trust the person that much getting married isn't an option for me.

Anger and resentment aside I would never take what isn't rightfully mine in a divorce situation (not what the law says). What logic says, right?

I understand many may think that thought is foolish, however, I think it's foolish to marry and not trust completely too.

Lisa