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Originally Posted by ScrimpAndSave
Disneysteve,
That is what I was going to do. I did plan everything in advance...I totally wasn't expecting anything like this to happen. What REALLY gets to me...is that if it were 5 days ago, I could get my cash back.  It was about $350.
I'm just so angry and pissed off and just feel jaded in general...which I guess is normal.
I guess I can't afford my dad's house after all...which is really devastating. I will have to look for something cheaper. If I can save up around $50,000-$60,000 I can get into a home that is $200,000 and easily afford the payments...that would probably be a small 1950's cape cod...ugh. I hate my life. |
I'm sorry that you can't afford your dad's house. Think about it this way though: It might have been hard to afford it anyway with all that law school debt.
Maybe you could sell the gifts on ebay if there's nothing else at the store you want.
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Originally Posted by ScrimpAndSave
I emailed my officiant...I only sent him $100 deposit, but I figured that it was a start. This is his response:
I am sorry that your wedding is called off and even more sorry that your personal life is off balance. I am sure things will come together as they are meant to be. Unfortunately, the deposit is designed to hold your date because I decline other wedding requests. That said, if I do book another wedding for that date, I will be glad to send back your deposit at that time.
Nice priest, huh?
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If he hasn't declined any other weddings for that date he should really give you back the deposit. I mean I can totally see hanging onto it if he's already declined other weddings but I doubt that. What a creep.