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Originally Posted by disneysteve
Excuse me, but why is it up to the bride? Why isn't it up to the bride and groom together? Last time I checked, marriage involved two people. Shouldn't there be two people involved in the planning and decision making? I know there were two of us involved in planning our wedding.
Also, what happened to the tradition of the bride's family paying for the wedding? Doesn't that happen anymore? My wife and I didn't pay for our wedding. Her parents did. My parents helped out some. That's always been the norm where I'm from.
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Isn't that a bit if a double standard? You want a say in the wedding, but you want HER family to pay for it?
Personally, I think it is a joint decision, and I would love the tradition of us helping all our kids (no gender discrimination here).