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Originally Posted by Joan.of.the.Arch
I had to give this about three seconds thought to even understand what you were talking about. Breasts. "Puppies?" Isn't that slang for feet?
I doubt anyone is checking into this forum looking for psychological advice related to breast enhancement surgery.
Interesting that you know it costs $6000 to do such a surgery. Did you look into it yourself thinking it would solve all your problems, but then looked into your own eyes and asked yourself what the problem was? Did you solve the real problem in your head?
I think you have formed your own stereotype of what people are thinking when they are planning cosmetic breast surgery. I doubt you really formed that stereotype through uncovering your own motives for breast enhancement, so I'm thinking you just prefer to hold yourself above those who would have the surgery. Why? Look into your eyes and ask yourself what the real problem is. Do you need to bolster your own self esteem by believing you are better than a segment of the female population whom you can dismiss as stupid enough to think that having bigger breasts solves all their problems?
If you really cared about the personal finances of women considering breast enhancement surgery, I do not think you would speak to them so smugly, pretending to be wiser than they are. |
Some men like small, some like large. Not all people have the same dislikes and likes. Variety is the spice of life.
OP's message sounds like a worried and caring man who genuinely wants to understand why these things go though our minds. He may not think it worth it (frankly I don't think it's worth it for me either).
Unfortunately we have our ups and downs, and some men cannot directly say "I love you just the way you are." Or we cannot hear or agree with those words when they do come our way.