What I find interesting is that its seems to be divided pretty equal between husband and wife when it comes to who has the stronger interest

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My situation and, I'm the wife, is simular to many of your I'm the go getter money wise I love DR and follow many of his idea but not all.

And my dh could care less about finanaces
. But he has changed his money habit tremendously since I started listening to DR not that he has listened though. He hardly ever fights or pushes for things he just says I would like that some day and I say as soon as we can pay cash. I just let him talk and dream. We both get all our needs and
really, really, really wants met. And we our just about to pay off our first focus loan. It was $8,000 in Feb and is about to go under $1,000.
He use to eat out most days now he doesn't even carry a card to make sure he does not eat out. He loves recreation and if he eats out the amount comes out of our recreation budget.

And he hates it when I say we can take the boat out because the rec. budget is gone for the month.
I believe he is proud and excited about what I have done with our money since the beginning of Feb., but its just not where his head is. His head is thinking about hunting, fishing, wood chopping and work.