My husband and I found out we were pregnant after 6 months of dating. I was on the pill and using it correctly. We weren't using any other method though. I won't ever say our daughter was a mistake, but she was definitely an early surprise! She'll be 3 this September, and she's definitely the light of my life.
On the other hand, we are currently not using any BC, but we also aren't telling people we're trying. I don't want to say those words for fear it'll like curse us, lol. But we do want to have another one and are hoping that it happens soon.
I do agree that if you absolutely don't want to get pregnant, you need to be using something to prevent it. There is absolutely no excuse for not using BC whether it be condoms, the pill, whatever.
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