A co-worker of mine was going on the other day what a burden it was for his mother growing up and raising 7 kids. I told him to his face that I had no sympathy what so ever for anyone who chose to have 7 children.
Similarly an ex-girlfriend of mine has had 3 children by a now deceased 60 year old man. The odd thing is they were trying and her only regret is they didn't have more before he passed away. I am glad they were in love, but what would you expect to happen?
I think having children is probably the most serious choice one can make in life. Yes, yes, anyone can have a child but it takes a man to raise one. My point is people don't take all of the risk into account before just going at it.
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