All 3 of our children were planned. Up until that point we had used BC. But, I didn't tell people we were '"trying". It isn't something I would choose to discuss with others. But I didn't have fertility issues either so I can understand those who do wish to discuss it because it can be very distressing to them.
As for "unplanned". I really don't know what that means. If you are having sex, then you are possibly going to get pregnant. ANd, I think the so-called "failed birth control" is mostly a failure of the user and not the method itself. I said mostly not all so no flames please.
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