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There is a big difference mentally between just going along unprotected and really "trying" by tracking cycles and making sure to have sex on specific days, as all veterans of infertility know.
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Exactly! DS was the result of over a year and a half of charting, counting, and having sex on specific days. DD was a "surprise" in that we were not trying. A happy surprise, but we did not intend to get pregnant that cycle. In fact we thought it would never happen with out all the rigamarole we went through the first two times. (the first one ending in a miscarriage and the second being DS.) After DD, we got fixed as not to be surprised again.