[PrincessPerky]

We did not plan our children..neither planned not to have them, nor planned to have them.

At no point in our marriage have we seriously used BC of any kind.

now 8 years later we have 4 kids....not planned, never counted days or anything. just happened that way. Though at no point would I call them accidents.

So yeah, we are not trying, but also not using Birth control. (well ok so newest is not yet 3 weeks, that counts as some kind of birth control, but it wont last) Oh and nursing is sorta birth control, but a really lousy one. I don't think it counts.