We have separate everything. I didn't think this would be the situation when I got married but my husband is a very strange person. It bother me at first but it's doesn't now. I'm a saver and he isn't I have triple in my retirement than he does. I can go out to eat and buy nice things and he can't. I'm going to the bahamas in dec. and he's not because he can't afford to go. would all this be different if we had joint account probably but this is how he wants it so this is how it's going to be. If we got a divorce and I had to split everything I have straight down the middle I would be pissed. I work hard to save and invest and he doesn't. He love his cc's and I don't I have one that I'm paying off fast and he has several he's paying off slowly. We are just two different people that have two different out looks on life.
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