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Originally Posted by DebbieL
I've never felt that it takes effort or work to communicate with my DH. I really do feel like this is a pretty effortless relationship. We both have a strong desire to please each other (and ourselves).
Now, I have had past relationships that I would have considered a LOT of work. Not even worth it in the long run, and they were so much hassle. I'm absolutely thrilled that I finally found DH!
PS - Seeker, I think between DH and I, his traits (sensitivity, communication, etc.) are probably much more female than mine. I think I am more the "male" in our relationship, lol. Maybe this is why so many women like to befriend gay men (DH isn't gay, but he's really like having a girlfriend - with benefits). He always loves to talk about everything and he's so sappy. Definitely not what I'm used to in a man.
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I hear you Debbie -- Nothing pleases me as much as pleasing DH. I love to see that shining sparkle in his eye and the slight grin
Also I can relate to the female/male traits. We, DH & I, can be watching a movie and during the sensistive moments, he will "leak" tears and very rarely do I. Because I grew up with two brothers, I think I pretty much learned to hide my emotional side most of the time; i grew up as a tomboy.
But I too, love the sensitive side to him. And I relate to what you're saying as far as feeling more male myself, at times.