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Old 06-19-2008, 09:44 AM
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Like MM said the biggest killer is daycare if you both choose to work FT or lost salary if one of you quits work.
We are very blessed to have extremely flexible jobs. I will work from home several days a week and hopefully only need childcare for 1 or 2 days maximum. I'm sure that cost will be expensive because I don't believe in daycare (as an instituion) so we will have someone come to our home or take the baby to someone's home.

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Are you asking about budgeting for all of childhood, or just for the first year or so?
I know the inital expenses will be high, but my question was more toward the everyday budget with a child. The increased costs of grocery bills, diapers, formula, etc.

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For the healthcare alone, kids cost us about $500/month.
This seems really high! Why is it so expensive?

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There is so much stuff for sale that hasn't even been "used."
When I adopted my puppy a few years ago, he had been abused, and they suggested that I get a playpen instead of a crate for the first several months until he was more comfortable with a crate. I went to a childrens resale shop and bought a brand new pack and play for $20! I couldn't believe it, so many things in the store still had tags on it!

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Does someone give you a list of stuff they expect to see in the baby's room when they do the home study?
They don't give a list, but, they do want your house to be child proofed and you should have everything "necessary" for a baby. I know that word is subject to different interpretations, but at minimum we would need somewhere for the baby to safely sleep, a carseat, clothes, bottles, etc. Our house has to be properly equipped with fire, co2 detectors, fire extinguishers, etc.
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