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Originally Posted by tabbycat31
Disclaimer...... I am not married and do not forsee being married in the near future. However if a potential husband had talked to me about staying at home while he worked, in the Donna Reed/June Cleaver fashion, I would view that as that he dosent know me well enough to seriously consider marrying me. Now if he wants to stay at home that's another story.
you also have to consider personality. I know I'd be miserable staying at home (I don't have that homemaker instinct AT ALL) and I would work solely for my sanity.
Not everyone is cut out to stay at home. I'm definitely not.
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I could have written your exact post 15 years ago. Never say never. I never planned to be a SAHM, before or after I was married. We had kids and decided life would be better if one of us stayed home. I've been a SAHM for 10 years. I still don't have the homemaker instict, but this is what works for our family.