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Originally Posted by LivingAlmostLarge
I have a question about marriages, does a marriage last solely based on how hard people work at it? Or does luck play a part?
I work hard at my marriage but I don't think a couple of my friends who have gotten divorced or are having problems it's because they don't work at it. They have and they are. But I'm just luckier.
Or is it really because people don't work hard enough? Weigh in even if you are still married long term. I'd love to hear from divorced people.
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Oh, also I think you're probably a bit more flexible/adaptable than the people who begin to fail at the compromising. Like me and DS and all the others whom do make a success of their marriages.
I know there are times that my DH just agrees to disagree about whatever! And most of the time at that point I just drop it. If it's not directly related to him or me, then it's not worth the arguement.