I think it depends on the sanity of the two people in the relationship. Some people have unrealistic expectations. Some people are selfish. Some people...I guess it's just a matter of finding a good 'fit' in a partner.
And some people change. Priorities change, outlooks and perspectives change. Priorities and future goals change.
So yea- its a crapshoot. I dont necessarily blame one person over the other in divorces, no one intends to break the other persons heart, or waste their time when getting married or even during the marriage.
One bad decision follows another sometimes. Hindsight is 20/20.
Disclaimer: I've never been married, but have been with someone 10 yrs and am considered married by friends and family.
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