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Originally Posted by hakuna matata
Okay you think about this then--say you are 60 years old and you had kids because someone on a message board thought you should. You resented having the kids, they know it, and they don't visit you because they hate you. So there you are all alone, and nobody thinks about you...etc.
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You know what, we all live to help each other. That's the main reason of human existance. When someone doesn't want to have his/her own children, then I think it would be great, when they adopt some child.
And I can assure you, adopted kind will be always greatful to you for saving him and giving him love and care. When someone has the opportunity, including financial opportunity to help that children, why not make a use of that. Living only for yourself, living only for fun and entertainment, is selfish and useless.
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Originally Posted by hakuna matata
So for you, clearly you need children to feel complete. Great on you.
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I also think that children are given by God, and when they are given, I hope I will take that gift with all responsibility.
Imagine that. I am in hospital. I am sick. And there are nobody to come to visit me, say "Hello, Dad! How are you? We have brought some fresh fruits for you".
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Originally Posted by hakuna matata
It was also important to me, but it isn't to everyone and you really have no business telling people their life is not complete without children. Simply isn't any of your business in my humble opinion.
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Ok, I am sorry. I was wrong.