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Originally Posted by maat55
One thing I believe is that if you don't want them, don't have them. I feel sorrow for the children who's parents find them to be a burden.
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I agree with that and will further that by stating...don't have kids if you don't want the responsibility. As a teacher I see parents who wanted kids for wrong reasons...someone who would love them or for the attention...and now don't do right by these kids.
Not having kids is a personal decision whether it is based on life style, health, or personal beliefs. You and only you know what is best for you and don't be guilted into having kids if you really don't want them. I'm probably preaching to the choir, and I'm sorry. It sounds like you don't want to have children for the wrong reasons and I applaud you.