If you do not want kids, then please do not have them. Kids are very expensive, but I would not trade mine for the world. The depth of your life after having and raising a child can not be measured monetarily. I would have a lot more money and assets if I did not have my two sons, but would that make me any happier? For me the answer is no. You can not explain how wonderful it is to hear your child tell you that they love you for the first time or say mama or dada. IMO, you can not quantify the depth of love they bring in to your life, and you can not fully understand that until you have children.
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