Debbie, thanks so much for your post...
I have no idea helping him with his debt (once we are married). But for now...I don't think I should be the one working 2-3 jobs to put him through school. I we were married - it would be a different story.
And he has $20,000 in cc debt. The cards are cut up and he does not use them anymore. Should I help him contribute to this debt monthly? When he graduates and we get married - I know we are going to attack the $20,000 in CC debt aggressively because it is the only cc debt that we will have.
Until then, do you think I should contribute at this time (being unmarried)?
I just don't think it is smart. I feel like I should save everything I can (for the wedding and house)...and every few months I will give him $500-$1000 to help him pay rent and utilities when he is a little strapped...that is what I am doing now.
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