It's fine to be a worried friend, but as a 28 year old woman with a 50 year old husband (and we've been together for 8 years), I would not advise delving too deeply into advice for your friend. She needs to make those decisions on her own. I have a four year old with my husband and he is a very involved parent. Life is hard, period. What matters is that we spend our lives with someone we love.
I would give her advice if she requests it. Other than that, I'd stay out. It's hard to do that as a concerned friend, but it's the best thing to do.
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