I am very worried about the recentness of his divorce. It's final actually in July 2008. And yes they are moving rather quickly, talking of moving in together in July.
I am definitely mentioning drawing up a cohabitation agreement, her last relationship, they were about to buy a house together to live in, and I mentioned a cohabitation agreement before they bought.
She brought it up, and he said why, and she said then let's get married. He said no way, and she said when? He said he didn't know and she ended it because he wasn't willing to commit.
I think it's fair to say that someone 55 usually does have less energy than someone 35. And comparing person to themself 20 years younger, typically you were in better shape, more energy, etc.
And yes I know she really wants kids. Like 3 or 4. And she said he's said he's willing to quickly have children with her. He said he wasn't ready with his ex-wife, or mature enough. I'm not sure if he's pulling her leg.
And no I haven't said anything yet, but I will be bringing up for sure the cohabitation agreement.
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