Things for her to consider:
1) If they do have children, she will be doing most of that work... he's not going to have the energy to be a caretaker and he will feel out-of-place in most of the school events. The mom is at a reasonable age and may end up doing all these tasks as well.
2) They may accidentally viewed as father/daughter especially down the line say when she's 40 and he's 60. And when the children are in their teens, he will be in his 70's....
3) Women have a greater life expectancy than men. She will most likely lose her hubby (20 years older than her?) unless his family medical history is a whole lot better than hers. She may end up being a caretaker for this man as well.
4) Why the divorce and why "recent"? One needs time to recover from a failed relationship. Could he be unable to deal with being alone and picking the first woman that comes along?
Those are the top concerns I'd have off the top of my head.
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