Sorry about that Steve, but don't go to an asian wedding. It really sucks. But if you aren't asian well you get forgiven A LOT more easily. But if you are, especially if you have been raised by immigrant parents or immigrated yourself, well there is a set way of behaving. NOT saying it's right, but it's just done.
Besides I'm in the camp of it's rude to even ask for money. I didn't do it. And of course I got money from family and I had a money box. But it's tradition.
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