I agree that is always rude to ask for money. So what if that is what you really want? No one is required to give gifts for your wedding; they do so because they want to help you start out your new life together as a couple or because they think it will make you happy. You shouldn't *expect* anything from anyone, even though everyone (even me) expected to get gifts. But I registered at stores that had a variety of price-points and did not ask directly for cash. If they choose to give you money, great. If not, be grateful for what you get. Just my humble opinion
