Much of your problem is the marriage, moving is going to be a necessary bandaid, but not a healing. Since you are the one who is financially stable and he chooses not to contribute in a possitive way, you should make the dicission to move, with or without him. This will either, wake him up or end a prolonged enevitable.
There are many books you can read to fill in the blanks of learning to manage your money well. Here's a few:
Financial Peace
The Wealthy Barber
The Millionaire Next Door
The Total Money Makeover
Money ( Clues for the clueless)
My heart goes out to you, it's not easy when only one person in the marriage is trying.
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