Thank you Broken Arrow, and everyone, for being supportive. It is hard to carry it all along by myself, but thankfully I'm strong enough to do it. I wish I didn't have to resort to "tough love" but what are the consequences otherwise? Anyway, knowing others are there cheering on and sending good advice is huge.
BTW - I never mentioned, this all started when i got fired (just a personality clash with some owners, agreed to disagree, nothing performance-based thank goodness) - and it took 8 months to find another. But we had zero saving, emergency, etc... so I was a sitting duck. Given the current economy, I just really don't want to be in that boat again! There is no excuse, I have to take responsibility for making things more secure financially.
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