I agree about the leader connection. When I was going to the meetings, I really connected with the leader. She was nice, personable and because I was always the first person there, we really hit it off on a one to one personal level. Then she moved out West and we got a new leader. This one was not nearly as nice and we didn't hit it off. She is the real reason I quit the meetings and did it on my own. You really need to be comfortable with the leader I think. I don't find it so hard on my own because I'm really committed to losing the weight. I'm down to where I want to be now and I'll have to see how hard it is to keep off. That's a whole fight of it's own.
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