This thread has taken off on a whole new direction. I wasn't sure I wanted to get involved. This conversation reminds me of when we moved to Texas. At the time, people were moving here from all states and all countries. And, their views of people here were based on Urban Cowboy and Dallas. I stayed out of it, but was totally amused overhearing Texans answer complaints from all kinds of people who were not from here. Every time someone would complain about the weather, the people, the culture, etc., Texans were just look at them and say, "Go Home." And leave it at that. People got quiet real quick after they were told that so many times. Texans don't really care if you don't like them based on judgements. They don't have any time for that. They are too busy helping each other and spending time with family. They are the most friend/family oriented people. And they don't care if you don't like them for who they are. They tell you to quit complaining, just leave. I tell you something...I'd rather live here during a disaster than anywhere. We had one law enforcement official tell FEMA that he was confiscating generators that had been sitting in a parking lot during a ton of red tape while they were needed to be used. He didn't mince words. The generators were expedited to use real quick after that. They get things done. They take care of people. They give and give.
I have a family member who is a PhD, held a chair at a University elsewhere, works in research, and loves sports. Of course they get given box seats in skyboxes and such instead of outside like us peons. We're working on him getting a pickup. LOL
I had an English friend who has since returned to Saudi Arabia. I realized that she and her husband did have a hard time with the culture here. But, she didn't shy away from joining in when she could. She also found an International Club for her other needs. We got along really well. I grew up around Air Force kids and research people from all over. Mom used to say that people thought she should be wearing overalls and chewing hay like on Hee Haw from where she grew up. But, both my parents are well rounded and very intelligent people. Just not what you would expect if you were to associate with just highly educated people. I believe everyone has the right to associate with who they want. I just get frustrated with people whose views can get a bit narrow. I have run into a bit of racism that perplexes me in an area where there is so much diversity. I believe in America. I have lived with people from everywhere. And from all walks of life. America is not perfect. But, it is a wonderful country full of wonderful people and cultures. If you don't like it, go elsewhere. We would love to have people stay and contribute to her greatness. And, what's beautiful about her is that you CAN say what you want. Just don't expect everyone to want to listen after awhile.
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