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Originally Posted by Seeker
Marla, I wish you luck in your journey.
And also, IF you do find both "love" and "money," then you need to think about what would happen to the "us" (the two of you) if that SO were to lose his job or ability to keep on making money. Would you then leave him?
To me looking for both, means discounting a great majority of the people out there who may be a good match for you.
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This is dead on. I love DH because of who he is. I thought nice smile, cute butt, and sweet guy. Money never weighed in till later. But we had similar ideals, values, and future goals.
So yes when he lost his job I sure as heck didn't lose him. He's a keeper either way money or no money.
But having compatibility is most important. If you want financial compatibility so be it. But realize that people do change and who you are and meet at 20, 30, or 40, could be very different in 10 years.