Yes, I have both love and money!
I agree though with marvholly. It's not even that you have been looking in the wrong places. The thing is if you aren't finding these people where you have been looking, well you need to look elsewhere.
If you only date the best looking guys with the nicest cars, you won't find it. (Not saying you are, just an example). It really isn't that hard to find honesty, trustworhy, reasonable, intelligent men. Who are in general better with money than the rest. You have to look through the smoke and mirrors. They might not always be the most exciting. But makes for a simpler relationship.