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Originally Posted by cptacek
I think this is irrelevant and sexist. Lots of times (most of the time?) the husband makes the "lion's share" of the money and if a wife came on this forum and said "he gets more fun money than me because he makes more of the money" then I bet most everyone would try to convince her that that wasn't fair and it should be equal.
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I was thinking the same of your response earlier too. But I can also see the wife may feel like she is being taken advantage of as well and be resentful of her husband. He is not able to work at his full potentional so it is different. The husband will always have a low income due to his disability.
In our household, it is more important that each of our important needs are met rather 50/50. But again, my husband and I really care and want the best for each other and we are both not spenders and think alike.