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Originally Posted by Exile
We all know--and perhaps you are one yourself--of people who wished they had waited before having children or not had them at all but just didn't think about it at the time, or had kids because they were pressured by family or because all their friends were doing it.
Don't children deserve a decent start in life and parents who are fully aware and committed to their responsibilities before hand?
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Exile - this isn't "at" you, but in response to your statement alone.
I believe that everyone deserves a "decent start" in life, but shame, shame, shame on those people who wish they did not have the children they did. How could you look at your child and say "I wish you were never born"? Or even secretly harbor that feeling? I can't imagine that.
Solve your problems, don't blame it on the children that didn't ask to be born to you or in whatever situation.