I'm at a stage where I've been married for just over a year, and we are not planning on having kids for another couple years. We want to get settled into our marriage, find a good place to live and to get settled into careers. Even with all that planning and taking proper precautions, we could end up with a child earlier and I accept that. But definitely being married for a period is good idea, otherwise it may be too much to handle at once.
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