[Snoopy2645]

Well in our marriage its me because dh would spend every last dime & no bills would be paid when we first married we made the same right down to the cent then I became a sahm but I had savings & it was my house & I did do some odd jobs & things like that to help out & now I am working pt again I am up to 24hrs a week now but even with all that its better for me to be in charge because like I said & dh has said it too we would be homeless if he was left in charge.