My fiancee understands and respects my desire to have finances as organized as possible. I am a number cruncher and have no problem admitting that. So this is how things work in our home... He cooks and I am in charge of the money. He knows I take time to reserach things before I make a move and I always read the fine print. I also just negotiated a deal on a car he was thinking about buying. I had some time off from school so poked around to see what I could get. I told him, he liked what I found, he ordered the car Monday.
Likewise, Velveeta shells and cheese is about the height of my cooking skills
( I use the term loosely)