Thanks for all the ideas,
My sister desided to elope....
She was going crazy and was thinking of all the craziness of my weeding and just eloped. I wish I would have eloped like she had, no drunk uncle to worry about and way cheaper. It is a can be a very frugal thing, but done with taste. They just took the Honeymoon Plans and did it early with the elopement built in....Way cheaper & smaller!!
So I will be going down to visit the bride and groom later this fall staying a week at their home, because I will not be gone as long that is a huge savings. Plus more quality time since I will not be doing all the family stuff. I wish I would have saved money sooner so I could have flown to the ceremony but Dad said it was Pretty. I cant wait to see the pictures.