[robex]

I'm a born saver. Dh is a saver although not to the same extent. Early in our marriage, he handed all money matters over to me. When I was pregnant with our first child, I had every intention of returning to a well paying job that I loved, but once ds was born I knew there was no way I could leave him in someone else's care every day. That's when we really cracked down on our finances...eleven years and two more kids later and I wouldn't change our decision for all the money in the world!