I am an introvert as well. There are many things I don't mind doing alone. I prefer to shop alone. If I shop with others, I find it distracting. Since I have been on these frugal boards I shop with a mission to think about what I am buying, how much I should spend, whether I will actually use what I am buying, etc. So, that requires concentration!
I don't mind eating out alone. And, I always wondered why the loners would sit at the meal reading a book or newspaper. I think "people watching" is fascinating and I love to sit close enough to others to eavesdrop on their conversations. You hear some interesting things. And, I don't feel self consious in that situation and can just sit quietly and enjoy a good meal.
I really don't like big parties. I am not great at socializing and small talk. I prefer smaller groups or just being with one friend. And, I do find that if I have people over, I enjoy it for awhile but sometimes I just get tired and want everyone to go home so I can go surf the net, play my guitar, or watch the news. Too much company can be very tiring.
And, I really dislike attending company parties. I feek awkward interacting with the boss and other coworkers in social situations. I usually attend these things with gritted teeth just trying to get through it and trying to leave at a reasonable time but not appearing to leave too early.
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