Unfortunately I am as gift impaired as he is..I often make a mental note of what my husband points out as cool...I just never remember it
Don't give his brain too much credit and his kindness too little!
Anyway, I don't know either of you, just noticing a great deal of women assume men should understand because 'I dropped plenty of hint's' Or friends of mine who say 'he doesn't care so why bother' when they have never bothered..so how would they know if he cared? (I have a distinct advantage of having a very 'male' brain when it comes to relationships-I didn't know one or two things that bothered my husband..till he pointed it out...explicitly...several times)
Not that you have to put up with him, in fact right now there is no reason to allow him access to your house account....nor is there a need to finish this little 'project' of taking care of him. But you can do it for as long as you want, it is your money. Just thought I would throw my two cents in on the side of open honestly...