When I met my husband I thought he was my soulmate but after 10 years of marriage and 2 kids I am starting to feel opposite of that now. We went down seperate paths and if it wasn't for the kids I would probably want to move on and find someone more in tune with me. Life happens - people change. We spent to long doing our own thing and now I am resentful of being the one who takes care of everything I can't stand to be with him most days. Unfortunately until kids are out of daycare and in school I don't think I could do it without his income. I make too much to get assitance (and i don't want it) but not enough to make it on my own as the cost of living is too much when I spend half my income on daycare. I carry benefits so which is actually good health care so it's hard to look at moving on.
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