Well, as long as you're not making unilateral decisions here. It should be a decision made jointly with your spouse. Obviously, she is not on board. So maybe you need to sit down and talk things through.
On your co-worker discovering your site, i guess that's one reason not to use your real name here, to preserve your anonymity. Now, knowing he may be reading it, you may not feel as free to say some things as you might otherwise. That happened to me early on when i too willingly shared my blog with an interested party, who happened to be my mother. Big mistake!
I had Jeffrey help me create a new ID and told my mother i was no longer blogging. I just disclose too much personal info here to be comfortable with anyone who actually knows me to learn of it.
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