[baselle]

Vacation always kills me too, even when I stay at home. If I'm working then I'm holed up in an office and not tempted (or have the ability) to spend money. And free time is a chance to re-connect with friends and family, rather office mates. Start opening the wallet. Grr.

It sounds like DH doesn't see the need because as long as the bills are paid, he sees the ATM balance, figures they are leftovers and uses them. Until he comes around is there a way to siphon off a few ATM bucks into a fund that can't be so easily touched? It sounds like vacation can be a powerful savings reward for both of you.

Do you get vacation at the same time every year? And is your vacation style basically the same? It might help prepare for next year. At least chicken wings, beer and camping can be budgeted for, as long as savings don't turn expectations into caviar, champagne and the Plaza.