[TBH]

We paid our lawyer a small fee to keep copies of our wills in perpetuity in her safe-deposit box. We have copies in our house, but I wanted one somewhere else in case there was a disaster in our house and I didn't want to rent my own safe deposit box.

I like that letter of instruction idea. I need to do that. We have been procrastinating writing a letter to the folks we've named as alternate guardians of our son. They know we've named them, and so does the rest of the family, but we need to specify a few things.