TBH,
I control our retirements - she controls the college savings.
Does that money need to be more aggressive and maybe a less expensive fund? - yes, IMO.
But you learn to pick your battles. Trust me - I have been married to my valentine for 12 years. She'll take the analysis of her fund from work as being a criticism, there will be a fight, and she'll win and I'll lose.
C'mon, you're a woman, you know how these things go.
